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Problem Solving with the City

03.20.2017 by Kayo Libiano //

I find that no matter what size of lot you own, at least in an urban environment, designing a home comes down to problem solving within the City Code.  There were so many parameters that were already in place from the get-go that our house basically designed itself. Admittedly, there were times at the start when we felt cornered, and that there weren’t a lot of creative layout options.  Especially when we penciled our needs down.

List of Absolute Needs:

  • 3 Bedrooms minimum
  • at least 2 full bathrooms
  • open layout kitchen/dining/living space
  • largest roof deck we could legally design

Of course our wish list looked quite different.

  • 4 Bedrooms
  • 3.5 bathrooms
  • Mud Room
  • Laundry Room
  • Walk-in Pantry
  • Powder off Mezzanine deck
  • A/C
  • Radiant Heated Floors

The original “dream” list went on and on and on…

Our budget and the land we are sitting on just didn’t make many items off our original list feasible.  We plan on having A/C and radiant heat (on the 1st floor only), but the space issues just could not be resolved.  During the initial stages of design, it’s important to get all your wants out on the table.  It’s a good exercise to know exactly what you desire for your dream home. How you want it to perform so that you can live comfortably and move rhythmically through its spaces.  You may be surprised at what your spouse feels is important versus what you feel is necessary.  A man-cave?  What?!?!?  Refining the list of spaces that will become your family’s actual future home is the next step of home design.

Next, you can tackle the City requirements.  I say, let your architect/designer work out the details, but just keep in mind that there is a lot of pushing and pulling before the final layout and its dimensions passes through.  We knew we wanted to max out on the height of our building as well as the width.  Not that we wanted a big ugly box, but in the end, if we are being honest here, kind of.  Just not the ugly part.  Most people will want to maximize on their lot if it’s tight.  If you have a sprawling plot of land, your built-space vs. open-space possibilities expand, but knowing that we were sandwiched between two existing neighbors, we knew we would have zero backyard and not all the “rooms” we dreamed of.  So “compromise” became our motto.  Practically no back yard meant placing high priority on a roof deck so our kids had some semblance of outdoor space to play.  And be assured, the City Code told us exactly how big we could make our darn roof deck.

I’m also not fully in love with the idea of the bedrooms being on two different floors, but after a few iterations we knew that it was an inevitability.  We are going to have to make the best of it.  Kids zone on the 1st floor and Master Suite + Public Spaces on the 2nd floor. Again, “compromise” and move on.  (I’ll let you know what a pain in the ass it is to carry groceries up to the 2nd floor once I’m living in the house a few months…)

My point is, architecture is about smart problem solving.  Knowing exactly what your family needs to function gracefully within your home is the first step to tackling the problems that will arise.  And they will arise!  But have no fear.  Pencil out a day in the life of your family. Don’t let go of the things that are important. (For example: kids spaces must be together, kitchen/dining/living spaces must feel airy.)  But be open-minded and compromise on the rest.  (For example: our backyard vs. deck situation, our bedroom locations, and garage must be 2-car and at the front of the house off the street…)  The Code will dictate a lot, so breathe through the inevitabilities and I wish you the best of luck designing a home that still resolves the issues with innovation and style.  A good designer can and will make the spaces flow to make them special, and come alive.

Don’t stop Dreaming!

-K

Categories // Ground-Up

They say Subway Tile is Out… But is it?

03.20.2017 by Kayo Libiano //

Subway Tile is a classic.  But is it so overused that it’s lost it’s charm?  I have designed many a kitchen and bathroom with this budget friendly material.  The 3″x6″ original unit can be stacked in a myriad of patterns from a traditional horizontal running bond to a 45° diagonal offset and all the patterns in between.

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I have seen Subway Tiles in other places too.  Gorgeous mirrored subway tile on restaurant walls, utilitarian/easy to clean installations in entry and mud halls, pops of colored subway tiles in laundry rooms…  In the end, I feel it’s a great surface cover; offering style and practicality in both traditional and modern homes.

For my personal home, I feel it needs a boost.  Something fresh to renew its place in tiled glory.  Enter Colored Grout.  Find some fun vibrant colors here.  How awesome is this stuff?  I intend to tile my kids bathroom in a traditional, glossy white, cheap tile.  Probably a vertical running bond or maybe a diagonal herringbone?  I have not decided yet.  I want the element of surprise to be the grout color.  A punch of color to make the pattern stand out.  If I asked the kids which color they want, they would most likely say blue, so I’m not even going to ask.  They are getting chartreuse.  Haha.  Black grout is hot but that’s the problem.  I’ve seen it everywhere for a few years and I want something whimsical and different.  Colored grout is having a moment right now so I’m jumping on that bandwagon.

There are other options to freshen up your subway installations.  Spend a bit more on an atypical dimension.  A longer tile, a tiny tile, a stone tile, or a colored tile can make any subway pattern sing.

I just don’t see Subway Tiles ever going out of style.  It’s an oldie but a goodie, dating back to the early 1900’s in New York’s subway stations, but that’s what gives it the nostalgic feel that I think is so appealing.  With all the options on the market today, only your creativity can limit you.  So my humble opinion?  Subway Tiles are here to stay and should be a staple in any designer’s bag of tricks.  It’s the black dress in any home.  Nostalgic, lovely  and works every time.

-K

Categories // Humble Musings

I’m that Bag Lady…

03.10.2017 by Kayo Libiano //

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I’m a bag lady of sorts.  I’m past being embarrassed about it because it works for me.  I have most of my own life activities and my kids’ extra curricular activities in separate bags.  Many, many bags – because, well, the kidlettes and I have many, many activities and errands to attend and accomplish on a weekly basis…

The following bags are always at the ready in the house: Swimming, Soccer, Skateboarding, Karate, Snacks, Pre-School nap bag, library book bag, on the fly sleep over bag, spare diaper bag, and finally, the “I had an accident” bag with extra clothes for each child (can’t wait to outgrow this one, though living by the beach, sometimes clothes just get sandy and wet.)

These bags are always in the back of my car: Travel potty bag, diaper bag, reusable grocery bags (thanks to California’s state law banning plastic grocery bags), restaurant activity bag (with crayons and travel sized games), bag with extra shoes for both kids (Do your kids leave the house and hop in the car without shoes on?  Mine do… ALL THE FRICKIN’ TIME), non-perishable snacks bag.

Whew!  And all these bags are separate from my daily diaper bag for the little one which does not always double as my purse for my own crap.  So yea, if I included my laptop bag, it seems like wherever I go, I have at least three or four  bags on my person.

I know it sounds a bit insane, but here’s how it works for my family.  On a moment’s notice, I can grab a bag and go.  When the laundry is done, the uniforms and stuff goes straight into the corresponding bag.  This way I’m never looking for that rogue soccer sock, those skateboard knee pads nor do I ever forget to bring a towel to swim practice.

No need to be fancy if that’s not your deal.  Just make sure your kids know which bag goes with which activity.  When I say, “grab your ____ bag, even my almost 2 year old knows which bag I’m talking about because every week, that same bag goes along to that specific activity.  It never changes.  They know and I know a snack is always in the car (so I never get too hangry) and they are ready to be outfitted for the activity for that day.  Done and done.

So what kind of bags do I actually use?  Meh, I’m not too picky, but I like to be able to wash the bags on occasion, so I tend to use fabric bags that I made.  Except for the reusable grocery bags.  Those have been a free for all as of late.

Just a note: Finding the perfect place to store the various bags in the house so they are not out all over the place is important too.  Make sure that all the bags are in one place.  Preferably hidden behind a lovely hall closet door or in cute baskets in a mud room if you have one.  In our current “shoe box” house which has neither a hall closet nor a mud room, the bags live on a low shelf in the kids toy room.  Not my ideal, but for now, it works.  You bet I definitely designed “bag storage” into our mud hall for the new house though!  I find that just how the consistency of ‘which bag is which’ is important, consistently in keeping all the bags in one spot is key.

So go get organized by bagging it all up!

-K

I have made this bag a total of 4 times.  Three are in constant use and the other one was gifted.  You have to look past the not so cute fabrics shown…  I swear, it’s a great size and shape for stashing all sorts of stuff.  It also has a magnetic clasp on top to hold things in.

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Find the pattern here.

 

 

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